“Worlds Apart”
Posted by Big John on July 4, 2018
I don’t know about you, but the more that I look around, the more I feel that the world has gone completely ‘bonkers’, with all those … ‘everything offends me’ zealots .. ‘mixed up’ millennials … the ‘snowflake’ students in their ‘safe spaces’ … the ‘cotton wool’ kids and their ‘helicopter parents’ … all those ‘me too’ and ‘look at me’ celebs … those TV ‘reality show’ morons, “like yer know like what I mean and like stuff” and those ‘scream your bloody head off’ audiences … the ubiquitous internet and smartphone addicts …and… the multitude of religious ‘nutters’ and “grief lite” mourners … It makes me wonder how they would have survived in the ‘real world’ I once occupied ?
As a child I lived in a place of death and destruction, although I was a little too young to understand much of what was happening. I played amongst the ruins of what had once been family homes. We often read today of how so many people are suffering from ‘stress’ and ‘anxiety’, but can you imagine the stress when taking shelter at night and not knowing if you would still be alive in the morning; or the anxiety of wondering if your loved ones in uniform would ever return ?
School in the 1940’s and 50’s was not exactly fun, but the discipline meant that ‘ADHD’ (and ‘Ritalin’) was unheard of, and “face the front” teaching of a variety of subjects, unlike today’s ‘dumbed-down’ system, provided most of us with a fairly sound education; although very few working class school leavers made it to university.
However, every healthy young man could look forward to spending two years in the military after they reached the age of eighteen: and, speaking of ‘health’, food rationing made sure that ‘obesity’ was an unknown condition.
I remember a more dignified world where good manners were appreciated and courtesy was expected. My father was a blue collar worker with a limited education and some very ‘rough and ready’ workmates, and yet, I never once heard him utter a swear word in all the years I knew him.
I’m going to leave it there just for now. Now where did I last see …
… that old photo album ?
judemiller1 said
You are speaking my language.
I had attention problems, my daddy cuff my head to get my attention, after a year, that seemed to cure me. LOL
rummuser said
The less said the better about language today John. It is common to use four letter words in ordinary conversation without any objections from any listener. Old foggies like me who grew up with different linguistic norms feel very uncomfortable but, that is the norm nowadays. I avoid such groups.
Joared said
Like every generation there are positives and negatives it seems. Right now, especially, much seems bleak and can only hope it doesn’t get worse. Would like to see better days before my time is up here on earth.
dunnasead.co said
In California, bad-mouthing adults- aka “assertiveness training” is taught as a subject in the schools. I once told that to a London cabbie, father of two teens, who told me something very quaint, and mildly obscene. It was marvelous. And he was right.